What hurts… ??!!
>:: letting go of a person u’ve just learned to love
>:: reminiscing the good times u shared together
>:: shielding ur heart to love somebody
>:: trying to hide what u really feel (hehehe…hidden desire ang show!)
>:: trying to hide the tears that involuntarily fall
from ur eyes
>:: loving a person too much
>:: giving up someone u never thought of giving up
>:: having the right love at the wrong time
>:: taking the risk to fall in love again
(Chem…imoha ni! am i ryt?! hehehe)
>:: hiding ur relationship from someone else
>:: controlling ur feelings to avoid hurting a friend (naa jud Polar Bear ma-igo..hehehe)
>:: thinking of him every waking and sleeping
moment knowing all the while
that he never even
thinks a single thought of
you…
>:: letting go, because everytime you see the
person, you only fall deeper
(kang sexy eyes sup ni cya…hehehe…code name nlng ta ani!)
>:: holding back only to find out when it’s too late,
you both felt
the same way, but were only scared to lose
each other so much
that you didn’t let the feelings out
>:: falling inlove with someone you didnt mean to
fall in love with
>:: finding the perfect man…with only one
problem…. he doesnt love you…
>:: helping the one you love court your friend
>:: seeing the one you love crying for someone else
>:: the waiting also hurts like hell
>:: having to hear "… I’ve met someone" (Ouch!!!…can i hit on rewind please?!?)
>:: agreeing to his wish to ‘just be friends’.
>:: asking his freedom back because he’d be
happier with her
>:: asking u to ‘forget that everything happened’ and
be ‘normal’ friends again.
>:: hearing that u’re treated as a big sis
>:: sharing his future plans for the girl with you.
>:: u stopped being friends because his gf asked
him to.
>:: being denied in front of people.
>:: telling u lies where he’d been when actually, he
was with a
‘new friend’ or an ‘old flame’
>:: he told u he’d be leaving you to return to his ex
(the one he left 4 you!)
>:: breaking someone’s heart
>:: fighting for that one thing that would make you
happy;
that is, holding on to a person who can not
guarantee you
his commitment unless he fixed himself…
then, you are left hanging for the
moment…then he says,
time will tell…but you still decided to hope in
him and trust him
>:: PRETENDING you’re OK when inside you’re
dying…
(igo nsad!…paita oi!!! when will the madness end!?! hehehe)
>:: PRETENDING to be strong…. and
RECOGNIZING your weakness
>:: lying in bed each night, thinking of that special
person you can never have…
>:: being with someone you can’t actually love…
>:: pretending you don’t love a person whom you
actually love…
>:: being in love…
>:: letting go even if you really don’t want to…
having no right to say you are hurting,
because it
was your decision
>:: seeing the person you love hurt because of
you…
and not being able to help that person…
>:: having the courage to say I LOVE YOU to the
person you
love and finding out afterwards that things will
never be
the same again when he doesnt treat you with
the same closeness as before
>:: having to face the fact that someone is capable
of
completely destroying the wall that you have
set for yourself,
leaving you weak and vulnerable
>:: admitting that you love someone despite his
imperfections
(Cione…relate jud ka ani!!! haha)
>:: finding out that the more you try to hate him,
the more
you end up loving him, perhaps even more
than before…
>:: realizing how stupid your mistakes were that
led to your break-up.
>:: the thought that this guy, used to really love you
and you loved him as well but you didn’t give
enough and
he gave up on you
>:: Sharing the one you love with SOMEBODY
else….."
>:: making a promise….and realizing that when the
time has
come for that promise to be delivered….the
commitment is no longer there…
>:: the hardest thing about love - believing it exists.
After you’ve been hurt…
…Life is a cycle my friend.
…Love and get hurt.
…Get hurt and learn.
…Learn to forgive.
…Learn to trust and LOVE again.
Hmm... moments in Portofino. Me and my girls talking about our fave songs (and who it goes out to!). When Cione Anne mentioned that hers would have to be Steep. Sang the song and realized... nyc man diay ang lyrics. Relate nsad nuon... especially the chorus part: For you the future's easy, so dontweep, for me it's getting steep. Yup... steep jud! Hahai... : Steep, Lauren Christy :Softly, gently, I will let you downCause I don't love you in the same way nowI can hold you but not with lover's armsCause you are more of a brother to me nowAnd I can lie next to you, but I can't lie to you So walk into the sun and watch meRun into the rain,For you the future's easy, so don't weep, for me it's gettingSteep I loved you for exactly who you are,And I'd say you've come the nearest yet by far, And I can lie next to you, but I can't lie to you So walk into the sun and watch meRun into the rain,For you the future's easy, so don't weep, for me it's getting Steeper and in the dark that's where I want to beDeeper, I'm going somewhere you won't want to see... So walk into the sun and watch meRun into the rain,For you the future's easy, so don't weepYes I will watch you,Walk into the sun and watch meRun into the rain drops For you the future's easy, so don't weepFor me it's gettingSteep. my only comforting thought or quote (hahaha!): That was rough.... Thing to do now is try and forget it.... I guess I don't quite mean that. It's not a thing you can forget. Maybe not even a thing you want to forget.... Life's like that sometimes... Now and then for no good reason you can figure out, life will just haul you off and knock you flat, slam you against the ground so hard it seems like all your insides is busted. But it's not all like that. A lot of it's mighty fine, and you can't afford to waste the good part frettin' about the bad. That makes it all bad.... Sure, I know - sayin' it's one thing and feelin' it's another. But I'll tell you a trick that's sometimes a big help. When you start lookin' around for something good to take the place of the bad, as a general rule you can find it. ~ From the movie Old Yeller
